I think Christmas pushed my oldest son over the top. He will be 4 in April and was an absolute terror on Christmas day. My wife cried, I was going crazy & Ryan was in trouble pretty much throughout the day. I felt so horrible for my mom and dad and my in-laws, who put a lot of time and energy into trying to make this a special day for him. With the new baby arriving less than two weeks before the Xmas, Ryan having to stay with the in-laws for a week and all the excitement and visitors to the house I think it was just too much for him to handle. His schedule was all out of whack and Christmas day just happened to be the day it all came to a head. It can only get better.